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This page is designed to deliver safety tips to parents and provide helpful insight to those whose child is missing. At Warren County Rescue, missing juveniles are top priority for us, whether they're lost or considered to be runaways.
Teaching Your Children
When a child reaches the age of 2, you should start teaching your child the following:
- Their first and last names,
- Home address,
- Telephone number, including area code,
- Parents' first and last names,
- How to use the phone to dial "911" or "0" in an emergency, and how to make a long distance call,
- A secret family password and the understanding of not going with anyone unless they know the password (if the person doesn't know the password, the child should be taught to yell and scream for help to attract attention). They should also be taught not to go anywhere without permission,
- Not to stray from you in public, and to approach people in uniforms for help if they're lost;
- What "Safe Spots" are and what the "Safe Spot" symbol looks like; click link for more info on Safe Spot,
- It's okay to tell an adult 'no' if they sense danger or are not comfortable. Teach them to yell "HELP! This is not my Dad/Mom!" Continue to yell, kick, and try to break loose until they get safely away,
- Never tell someone on the phone they are alone or open the door to strangers; if a delivery is being made, have them leave it on the porch.
Tips For Parents
- Always know the whereabouts of your child,
- Never leave your child alone in an unattended vehicle,
- Never let your children out of your sight while shopping in a store or mall,
- Never let your child go to a public rest room alone,
- Know the names, addresses, and parents' names of your child's friends,
- Take pictures of your child at least once a year. If under the age of 2, four times a year,
- Keep a detailed description of your child. Include height, weight, age, eye and hair color, birthmarks, scars, moles, and any specific physical characteristics your child may have,
- Make sure your dentist prepares full dental charts on your child and updates them with each exam,
- Find out from your doctor where your child's medical records are located. All permanent scars, birthmarks, broken bones, and medical needs should be recorded,
- Arrange with your local police department to have your child fingerprinted. The police department will give you fingerprint card. They will NOT keep a record of your child's prints.
- Your local police department or your child's school may offer an Ident-A-Kid program; use this program to get an Ident-A-Kid card for your child
- If you have an iPhone, you can download the FBI's Child ID App. This app keeps detailed info of your child and in the event your child goes missing, you can email all of your contacts and the authorities your child's information.
Tips For Prevention
· Share quality time with each child, listen, and guide them through difficult periods.
· Exercise plenty of patience, love and understanding.
· Take their worries and fears seriously.
· Pay attention when they ask for help and realize these requests for help may not be in the form of a simple verbal plea.
· Note the following warning signs and be aware of them.
· Confront signs of trouble in a direct and calm manner.
· Discuss your concern and the consequences of continued unacceptable behavior.
· Listen and discuss calmly - try not to lecture.
· Talk with your child's teachers and parents of their friends. Often, helpful insights can result.
Look for Warning Signs
Often, it is difficult to distinguish trouble signs with the usual adolescent turmoil. But when real problems are in the making, the signs usually come in clusters. Observance of these signs should cause concern - rather than undue alarm:
· Sleep Changes - fatigue, early morning wakening, insomnia, or increased sleeping.
· Personality Changes - apathy, boredom, irritability, preoccupation with a single thought, abrupt mood swings, excessive blowups triggered by small things, use of alcohol and/or other drugs.
· Withdrawal From Family - growing isolation, avoidance of family gatherings - even at meals, and increased violation of house rules.
· School Problems - cutting classes, truancy, falling grades, apathy, fights and other disciplinary problems.
· Withdrawal From Friends - fallouts with friends, hostility toward former friends, new (often older) friends, reluctance to introduce parents to new friends.
· Overreaction To Family - prolonged reaction to loss or stress from death, divorce, illness, loss of job, or change of residence.
· Trust Your Feelings - parents often have "gut feelings" when something is wrong. Trust these feelings and watch for these signs.
Locating a Runaway
It is very important for parents to remain calm and rational when they discover that their child has run away. Do not panic or lose sight of the immediate task at hand - to locate the runaway and return him or her safely to home.
The first 48 hours are the most important in locating the child. Many runaways return home during this two-day period. To help locate your runaway child, follow these steps immediately:
· Check with your child's friends, school, neighbors, relatives, or anyone else who may know of your child's whereabouts. Ask them to notify you if they hear from the child.
· Contact the local police. Provide a complete description of the child, birth date, school and grade, medical and dental records or doctors' names. Include circumstances surrounding the disappearance and the complete name and description of the abductor and vehicle used, if known. Provide the police with a recent photo of your child.
· Record the name and badge number of the officer who takes the report. Find out who will follow up the initial investigation. Also, be sure to request the case number of the missing persons report.
· Remember: Keep a notebook and record all information on the investigation.
· Ask that all data regarding the missing child be entered into the Law Information Network of Kentucky (LINK) computer, National Crime Information Center (NCIC) computer, and the Kentucky Missing and Exploited Children Unit.
· Double check to make sure that the Kentucky Missing and Exploited Children Unit receives a KSP 261 Missing Persons Report and a current photo so that a flyer can be distributed statewide and to surrounding states.
· Wait 24 hours and then check with the police to determine that the information has been entered. Ask to receive a copy of the printout, if desired. If the information has not been entered into the LINK and NCIC computers, then contact the Kentucky Missing and Exploited Children Unit and sign an affidavit that the local agency is in noncompliance with the law.
· Request that you be kept informed on a regular basis of the status of the investigation.
When a Runaway Returns Home
· When your child returns home, make sure to show love and concern for his or her safety - NOT anger or fear. If you react angrily, your child may feel unwanted and unloved and may run away again as soon as possible.
· Please make sure that your child understands that you care about what happens to him or her. Promptly notify police and anyone else who may have assisted you.
· If your child has been away for an extended period of time, a complete medical examination is recommended when he or she returns home, including tests for sexually transmitted diseases.
· Most importantly, try to resolve the problems in your family that prompted your child to leave home in the first place. In general, children run away because of problems or stresses in the family or at home - such as divorce, remarriage, alcoholism and other drug abuse, and physical or sexual abuse.
· If you are unable to deal with the family problems effectively, seek the assistance of a trained counselor or professional. Parents can contact the local Department of Social Services, Family Services, or other public or private agencies that help families.
· Members of the clergy, school personnel, or the law enforcement community can also direct you to available services and resources. It may be necessary for your child to go to a temporary residence or runaway shelter while the family works toward resolving its problems. A trained counselor can help you make this decision.
Reporting a Missing Child
If your child is missing, act immediately. Search the house checking closets, piles of laundry, in and under beds, inside large appliances, and inside vehicles, including trunks--wherever a child may crawl or hide. If your child is still missing, immediately call "911." The quicker first responders are notified the better. The dispatcher will then notify the appropriate agencies.
If your child disappears in a store, immediately have the store manager or security office notified and call 911. Many stores have a “Code Adam” plan of action—if a child is missing in the store, employees immediately mobilize to look for the missing child.
Federal Missing Child Laws
If your child is missing, you have certain rights under federal law.
· Law enforcement is not allowed to observe a waiting period before taking a report from you.
· Law enforcement must enter your child’s information into the FBI’s NCIC database and the state’s law enforcement system database within 2 hours of receiving your missing child report.
· The National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) provides free services to families. NCMEC operates the nations clearinghouse for missing and sexually exploited children. After you’ve reported your child missing, call NCMEC at 1-800-THE-LOST to learn more about what NCMEC can do for you.
Children With Special Needs
Children with special needs cab be at a higher risk of becoming missing. If your child has special needs, our agency has two proactive programs that provides extra security for your child. Operation Golden Retrieval and Project LifeSaver are offered for free and can be used for children with special needs, whether it be Down Syndrome, Autism, or any other cognitive brain disorder.
NCMEC Information Links